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Private coaching with Wes Lemos
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Building it was never the hard part. Getting someone to say yes is.

Every month I sit down with a small number of founders and operators, watch a recording of a real sales call of theirs, and show them the exact moment the deal was won or lost. Over 3,000 clients closed. Over 5,000 Zoom calls. I'm still selling every week, in my own companies.

Thirty minutes, no pitch deck. If we're not a fit I'll tell you on that call and it costs you nothing.

A recorded sales call open on a laptop in a quiet study at dusk
Three numbers. Here's what each one actually bought me.
3,000+
clients closed personally

Not a company-wide total. These are deals I closed myself, across every channel I've ever sold through. Somewhere around number two hundred, price stopped making me flinch. That flinch is the thing your buyer can hear.

5,000+
Zoom calls, all sales and discovery

Fifty calls teach you your pitch. Five thousand teach you what a buyer sounds like ninety seconds before he says no, and what you can still do inside those ninety seconds. These two numbers aren't a ratio: plenty of those 3,000 never needed a call, and plenty of these 5,000 ended in a no.

4 companies
built from zero

Sales Connector. ProxyBox. LinkedRank. Molly AI. I'm not a coach who used to sell. I ran calls this month, for my own companies, with my own money on the other side of the decision.

Round numbers, and I'll tell you exactly where each one comes from if you ask. If a number on this page can't survive that question, it shouldn't be on the page.

◆ The main event

He watches your calls. That's the product.

You send recordings. I scrub them, mark the moments, and write what I would have said instead. Then we get on Zoom and watch the tape together, stopping it line by line.

What follows is an illustration, a composite call assembled from patterns I've seen across 5,000 of my own. The transcript is invented. No client recording appears on this page.

  1. The apology open

    Hey, sorry, I've got a hard stop at the top of the hour.
    No problem at all, I know you're slammed. I'll keep this quick, I promise.

    You just agreed that this call is an inconvenience. Everything after this sentence is you trying to earn back the thirty seconds you gave away for free. You don't have to be precious about somebody's time. You have to be worth it.

    "Good. I only need twenty-eight of it. Before we start: what made you take this call?"

  2. You answered the polite question

    So tell me a bit about what you guys do.
    Sure! So we're a platform that helps teams… [4 min 12 s]

    That question isn't interest. It's manners. You answered a courtesy with four minutes of company history and spent the best attention window of the whole call talking about yourself. Two sentences, then hand it back.

    "We fix the part of outbound where good leads go quiet. Whether that's your problem is what I'd like to find out. What does the pipeline look like right now?"

  3. The moment the call was decided

    We tried something like this a couple years ago. Honestly, it didn't stick.
    Yeah, we hear that a lot, we're pretty different from most of what's out—

    You interrupted the most important sentence of the call to defend yourself against something nobody accused you of. "It didn't stick" means money was spent, it failed, and somebody wore it. That person is in your approval chain right now and they are not on your side. The next four minutes needed to be about that. You gave it twelve seconds.

    "What part of it didn't stick, and who ended up wearing that internally?" Then nothing. Let them talk as long as they want to.

  4. This. Eight more of these.

    …it's not that the tools are bad, it's that nobody actually owns the follow-up.
    So it's not a tooling problem. It's that nobody owns the follow-up.
    Exactly. That's exactly it.

    You said their sentence back to them, added nothing, and they said "exactly." Look at the shape of the call right here. It's the only stretch in thirty-one minutes where their line is taller than yours. That isn't luck and it isn't personality. It's a technique, you already have it, and you used it once.

    After any answer that matters: say it back, add nothing, wait.

  5. The pause you filled

    So what happens if this is still broken twelve months from now?
    I mean, I imagine you'd just keep doing it manually, right? Which honestly a lot of teams do, and that's actually where we come in, so let me show you—

    That was the best question you asked all day and you killed it a second and a half after it left your mouth. They were thinking. Thinking is not a problem to be solved. Then you rescued your own silence with a product tour. From 12:12 to 16:38 you spoke ninety-one percent of the words. Nobody in the history of selling has bought because of minute four of a demo.

    Ask it. Then count. One thousand one, one thousand two, one thousand three, one thousand four. It will feel like a year to you and like half a second to them.

  6. You objected for them

    So, pricing. It's twenty-four hundred a month, but obviously there's some flexibility there depending on what you need.
    Okay.

    Nobody said a word about budget. You raised the objection, conceded it, and negotiated against yourself in a single breath, and then found out they were fine with the number, because "okay" is what fine sounds like. Every discount you offer before they ask for one is a discount you paid full price for.

    "It's twenty-four hundred a month." Then stop talking. If it's a problem, they'll say so, and then you're negotiating with information instead of nerves.

  7. Twenty-four minutes late

    I'd want to run this by Dana. She owns the budget for anything over ten.
    Totally, of course. Happy to put something together for Dana.

    Twenty-four minutes in, you found out you'd been pitching a passenger. That's a minute-three question, and it is not "are you the decision maker." Nobody has ever enjoyed answering that. Ask about the last time instead. People will happily describe a process. They get defensive describing their own authority.

    "Walk me through how the last thing like this got approved. Who signed it, and what made them say yes?"

  8. You closed with homework for yourself

    Great, I'll put together some information and send it over, and we'll go from there.
    Sounds good.

    "We'll go from there" is where deals go to die quietly. You ended thirty-one minutes of real work by assigning yourself a task and them nothing. Now you're a follow-up email in a full inbox competing against their actual job. The only acceptable end to a good call is a date.

    "I'd want Dana on the next one. I'm open Tuesday at ten or Thursday at two. Which is easier to get her on?" Have the calendar open while you say it.

  9. What we'd work on first

    Eight marks, one problem. You're genuinely good with people. The mirror at 8:40 was excellent and the question at 12:10 was better than most of what I hear. You just can't stand quiet. Every mark on this call is the same reflex firing at a different moment: fill the space, defend the thing, keep it pleasant.

    So we don't fix eight things. For two weeks you fix one. After any question that matters, you count to four before you speak. Nothing else changes.

    Then you send me the next call and we count together.

    That's one call. Every month, I do one of yours, and then we sit down and go through it together.

    See the cadence below.

Yours comes back as a written teardown with the timestamps in it, then a session where we watch it together and stop the tape. Once a month, on a real call of yours.

◆ The bottleneck moved

Everyone can build now. That's exactly the problem.

Four years ago, the expensive part of a business was making the thing exist. You needed engineers, months, and money before a single stranger could tell you no. That's over. You can have a working product this week, a landing page this afternoon, and ten thousand qualified prospects before lunch. Building is now the cheap part. And the moment it got cheap, it stopped being the thing that separates one company from another.

Here is what did not get cheaper. Somebody still has to sit across from a stranger who controls a budget, figure out what they're actually worried about, and get a yes before the hour is up. That job is exactly as hard as it was in 1995. Harder, if anything. Every buyer's inbox now holds forty AI-written messages that sound like yours, so by the time a real one shows up on your Zoom, they arrive skeptical and in a hurry, and you have about nine minutes to be different.

So the failure mode changed shape. Founders don't die anymore because they couldn't build it. They die with the product finished, running twelve calls a month that all end the same polite way: "This looks great. Send me something in writing." Then nothing. That is not a product problem and it is not a marketing problem. It's a forty-minute problem, and it is happening in the one room where nobody has ever watched you work.

And it poisons your data. You can build ten things now, so the only question that matters is which one somebody will pay for, and the only instrument that answers it is a real sales conversation with a real buyer. Run that conversation badly and you don't get a no, you get a false negative. You conclude the market doesn't want it, when what actually happened is you led with features, took the first objection at face value, and let a buyer talk himself out of something he needed. Good companies get shut down on the strength of twenty bad calls.

Selling is the last thing in your stack you can't delegate or automate. You can hire out the build. You can hire out lead generation. We do that for people every day. You cannot hire out being the person in the room. And you don't get better at it by reading. You get better the way pilots do: someone with thousands of hours watches your tape and tells you what you did at minute nine, and why it cost you the deal.

"In this era the bottleneck isn't building things. It's being able to sell and validate them." — Wes Lemos, CEO, Sales Connector

◆ The offer

One package. Everything I've got.

No bronze, silver and gold. I do this one way, because it's the only version I'd want to be on the other side of.

$1,995/ month

Month to month. Cancel any time, same as everything else we sell.

  • Your LinkedIn, fully managed. My team runs your campaigns and answers your inbox in your voice, rebuilds your profile, and switches on every feature in Sales Connector for your account. That's our Managed plan, and on its own it costs $1,195 a month.
  • One session with me, every month. Sixty minutes, recorded, same shape every time, so you never spend the first twenty minutes catching me up.
  • One call torn down, every month. You send a recording of a real sales call. I watch the whole thing on my own time and send back the timestamps and the lines I'd have used instead, so we don't burn your session watching tape in silence.
  • The Room, every month. One hour with a handful of my best clients, working on each other's problems out loud. More on that below.
  • Introductions, when they're real. I talk to business owners all day. When one of them needs what you sell, I make the introduction myself. Occasional and hand-picked, never a quota.
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◆ Once a month, everyone at once

The Room

One hour a month, a handful of my clients on a single call, working on each other's problems out loud. I run it. I'm usually not the most useful person on it, and that's the point.

You bring one thing you're stuck on. So does everyone else. What tends to happen is that somebody two industries away already solved your exact problem three years ago and never thought it was interesting enough to mention.

It stays small deliberately. Everyone in it came through the same gate, so you can say real numbers out loud without regretting it later.

You bring one problem

A stalled deal, a price you're afraid to raise, an offer that isn't landing. One thing, not a status update.

The room works on it

Other founders and operators who sell for a living, plus me. Different industries, same conversation.

Nothing leaves

Numbers, clients and mistakes stay in the room. That's the only rule and it isn't negotiable.

A door standing slightly ajar with warm light spilling into a dark hallway
◆ Why there's an application

I turn people down. That's the part that makes this work.

It's the only thing we sell that you can be turned down for. Everything else on this site, you can just buy. None of what follows is velvet rope. Here's the actual, boring reason I only take a few people at a time.

My time is the constraint, and it isn't a marketing constraint.

I'm still running Sales Connector. I'm still building ProxyBox and Molly. Every hour I spend inside your pipeline is an hour I'm not spending inside mine. That's the entire reason this costs what it costs and the entire reason the roster is small. There is no other scarcity story here, and I'm not going to invent one.

I only take businesses I've actually sold in.

My experience is deep and it is narrow: B2B, founder-led, decided in a handful of conversations. Point it at the right business and it's worth many times $1,995 a month. Point it at the wrong one and you've bought a very expensive opinion.

I only take clients I'd be willing to introduce people to.

That's the whole gate. If I wouldn't hand you my contacts, I shouldn't take your money.

And you can leave whenever you want. The gate is on the way in, not on the way out. If I'm not making you money, firing me should take one email.

◆ Both sides of the gate

Read the second list first. It's the honest one.

We'd rather lose the application than the month. If you're on the right-hand list, please don't apply. You'll get a no, and it'll be a slow no, because I read these myself.

This works when…

  • You sell to businesses, and one identifiable human decides. A founder, an owner, a VP. Someone whose name you know before the call.
  • Your deal closes in one to three conversations. Anywhere from a $500/mo retainer to a $25,000 engagement.
  • You're personally on the calls, or the person who is will be in the room with us.
  • You're already having conversations. At least five a month. Ten to forty is the sweet spot.
  • You will record your calls. Non-negotiable. The whole method rests on tape.
  • Your offer is honest and your delivery is solid. I coach you to sell the thing you already do well.
  • You can change something by Tuesday. You own your pricing, your script, your calendar. Nobody has to approve it.

Don't apply if…

  • You sell to consumers. Different psychology, different objections. I haven't done it at volume and I won't pretend otherwise.
  • Your sale has no live conversation in it. E-commerce, self-serve SaaS, marketplace, dropshipping.
  • Your deal takes nine months, an RFP, and a committee of eight. I can make your first two conversations dramatically better. I can't run your procurement process.
  • You have nothing to record yet. Go get ten conversations first. Then this works.
  • Your problem is delivery, not sales. If you close fine and customers leave in ninety days, more closing makes it worse.
  • You want someone to do it for you. That's the Managed plan at $1,195/mo, or it's a hire.
  • The comp plan is the product. MLM, recruiting-driven programs, high-risk financial promotion.
  • $1,995 would hurt. Coaching is a lever on a business that's already moving. It doesn't rescue one that's ninety days from the end.
My company only works with very senior level decision makers in Fortune 500 companies. I was doubtful Sales Connector would be able to open doors I hadn't already gotten to in my 20 years in this space. To say I've been pleased is a vast understatement. We've booked over 80 meetings with new companies and are in negotiations with over a dozen of them.
Joel · CEO, Contract Solutions

Joel is a Sales Connector client, not a coaching client. Coaching is new and there are no coaching testimonials yet. When there are results worth quoting I'll quote them, with names. Until then this is here to show you what the team does, not what the coaching did.

◆ Common questions

The nine things people ask me

If yours isn't here, the fit call is the right place for it. Thirty minutes, and I answer on the call.

01$1,995 is more than the Managed plan. What am I paying the extra for?
$800 a month, and it buys four things: an hour with me, a real teardown of one of your calls, a seat in The Room, and an introduction now and then. Managed at $1,195 is leverage on your pipeline. This is leverage on you. If your calendar is empty, buy Managed on its own first and come back when it isn't.
02Do I have to be a Sales Connector client already?
No, and you don't have to become one separately either. The Managed plan is inside the $1,995, so if you're new you get the whole thing on day one. If you're already a Managed client, you're paying $800 to add me and nothing you already have changes price.
03What actually happens in the monthly session?
Sixty minutes on Zoom, recorded, and it runs the same way every time. First ten minutes: your numbers. Calls taken, calls closed, what you did with last month's three items. Next twenty-five: the tape, which I've already watched and marked up. Next fifteen: whatever is actually in front of you, a live deal or a price or a hire. Last ten: three things to do before we meet again. Your recording lands in your inbox the same day.
04How do the teardowns work? Do I have to record everything?
Not everything. One call a month, and it should be a bad one. Send the deal that stalled, not the one you closed, because a won call teaches you almost nothing. Recording itself is required. Zoom, Meet, Fathom, Gong, whatever you already use, and if I can't open it I'll tell you the same day. The whole method rests on looking at what actually happened rather than what you remember happening, and memory is generous about the part where you talked for nine minutes straight. You're responsible for recording consent where you and your buyer are.
05What is The Room, and do I have to talk?
One hour a month with a handful of my other clients, each bringing one thing they're stuck on. You don't have to talk the first time and most people don't. You will by the second. It's the part of this I'd least want to give up, because advice from four operators who sell for a living lands differently than advice from one coach, and it's the only place you'll hear how somebody in a completely different business solved the thing you're staring at.
06What are the introductions, really? Is that a guarantee?
No. I talk to business owners all day, and sometimes a conversation surfaces someone who needs what one of my clients sells. When it happens I make a real introduction to a real person. It happens when it happens. Some clients get several in a year, some get none. No quota, no minimum, no schedule. Don't buy this for the introductions. Buy it for the coaching and treat an intro as a bonus nobody can put on a calendar.
07What if it isn't working?
Say it in the session. "This isn't working" is a normal sentence and it's usually diagnosable in about ten minutes. Beyond that, it's month to month, so cancel any time with no notice period and no retention call. And I'll end it before you do. If I decide I can't move your number, I'll say so and refund the month in progress. I'd rather give the place to someone I can actually move than keep your money.
08Is this you personally, or someone on your team?
Me, for the session, the teardown and The Room. Every month, every time. That's the whole reason I keep this small instead of turning it into a course. The team is what handles your campaigns, your inbox and your profile, which is exactly the work that should be delegated. The coaching isn't.
09I'm in a completely different industry than you. Does that matter?
Some, and here's the honest boundary. I've never sold what you sell. What I have done, over 5,000 times, is run the conversation where a business owner decides whether to buy something, and that conversation is far more similar across industries than people expect. Same hesitations, same stalls, same four ways a good deal dies. Where it breaks down is when the sale is the technical content: deep clinical, heavily regulated, engineering-led. I'll coach the conversation and stay out of the content. If there's no conversation left once you remove the content, put that on the application. It may be a no.
◆ The application is one call

Thirty minutes. I'll tell you if I can move you.

You tell me what you sell, who buys it, and what's actually happening on your calls right now. I'll tell you straight whether coaching with me would change your numbers this quarter. If it wouldn't, I'll say so and point you at what would. Sometimes that's our done-for-you outbound, sometimes it's nothing at all.

One thing worth noticing while you're on it: you will be sold to, live, by the person you're considering paying to teach you selling. Pay attention to how it feels and how fast it goes. That's the whole demo.

No payment now. Nothing is charged until after the fit call, and the fit call is free.
A limited number of clients at a time. Month to month, cancel any time.
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